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Monday Blues | Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu
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Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu. March 7, 2016. Monday morning, 6:45 am:. It is not the alarm-clock and I cannot hit snooze . This is, in fact, my son. Crying. What’s wrong, sweetheart? Please don’t make me go. I don’t want to go. I breathe a sigh of relief: no, he’s not sick. Not again. He just doesn’t want to go to the kindergarten, that’s all. Set the limit and then listen carefully. My mind whispers to me. Thank you, mind. And then I proceed. I can even fix some breakfast now. He agrees and...
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February | 2016 | Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu
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Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu. Monthly Archives: February 2016. Another Hide and Seek Game. February 13, 2016. My son has thoroughly enjoyed his Carnival holiday and, when the time to return to the kindergarten has come, he found it difficult to leave home. 8211; I’ll miss you, mommy. I do not like to be away from you. That, as some point, he even asked for! So here is how it went:. 8211; I still love you even when I’m not with you, even when you cannot see me. All this worked like magic and,...
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What If? | Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu
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Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu. February 8, 2016. My son was at home with a cold and, since it was windy and rainy outside, we had no other chance but to spend our days indoors. He loved the first day in: just the two of us, for so many hours, playing together, having lively talks about his favorite subjects, preparing meals, reading books, listening to music or simply being around each another. My ‘No’ gives definition to the nameless tensions that have been driving him off-track. He turned h...
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Handling Separation Anxiety – the Hand-in-Hand Way | Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu
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Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu. Handling Separation Anxiety – the Hand-in-Hand Way. October 25, 2015. Every Monday morning, just as soon as he wakes up, my son remembers that he’s supposed to go to the kindergarten and starts protesting:. I don’t like it, mommy and I don’t want to go; please let me stay home. I listen to him every time, I hold him gently and then I say my. He cries for a while in my arms and then, before I even know it, he magically cheers up and switches subjects. Not knowing...
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Monday Blues | Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu
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Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu. March 7, 2016. Monday morning, 6:45 am:. It is not the alarm-clock and I cannot hit snooze . This is, in fact, my son. Crying. What’s wrong, sweetheart? Please don’t make me go. I don’t want to go. I breathe a sigh of relief: no, he’s not sick. Not again. He just doesn’t want to go to the kindergarten, that’s all. Set the limit and then listen carefully. My mind whispers to me. Thank you, mind. And then I proceed. I can even fix some breakfast now. He agrees and...
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Anca | Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu
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Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu. One clean enough emotional backpack and a face nicely painted :). October 21, 2016. In her talk on Supporting Parents in Raising Boys. Trainer, parent coach and writer mentioned, as a characteristic of children’s emotional intelligence,. The capacity to self-regulate. I loved how she defined this quality, in a genuine Hand in Hand way: she explained that, when. A clean enough emotional back pack. I believe that it means that, along time, the child was listened to.
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January | 2016 | Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu
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Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu. Monthly Archives: January 2016. The Talking Milk :). January 27, 2016. The morning rush. We’re in quite a big hurry. It is 7.15 already, so we really need to get out of the house soon or we’ll all be late. And yet, my five year old does not seem to make any particular progress with that glass of milk he’s been studying for the last five minutes or so. Oh, wait! He’s now leaving the table trying to look for a book. I take a deep breath and ask:. But only to drink...
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Jane, the Snake’s Charmer :) | Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu
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Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu. Jane, the Snake’s Charmer :). March 6, 2016. Saturday evening. Bed time, more specifically. Which usually equals with never ending discussions about the way we have spent our day, followed by a bed time story, some giggles and cuddling. And yet, this evening my son wouldn’t even look at me. Something bothers him and I try asking him what that is. He wouldn’t answer though. He just shows a distressed little face. I do not insist. I answered, without any hesitation.
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October | 2016 | Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu
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Parenting by Connection with Anca Deaconu. Monthly Archives: October 2016. One clean enough emotional backpack and a face nicely painted :). October 21, 2016. In her talk on Supporting Parents in Raising Boys. Trainer, parent coach and writer mentioned, as a characteristic of children’s emotional intelligence,. The capacity to self-regulate. I loved how she defined this quality, in a genuine Hand in Hand way: she explained that, when. A clean enough emotional back pack. Without threatening or punishing.
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