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the lotus flower | the dominant submissive
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Life as “Red”. If you feel lost, disappointed, hesitant, or weak, return to yourself, to who you are, here and now and when you get there, you will discover yourself, like a lotus flower in full bloom, even in a muddy pond, beautiful and strong. Masaru Emoto, The Secret Life of Water. The day I recognized I was submissive is the day I was born anew and ever since I live each day of my life as a lotus, striving for unwavering faith, strength, courage. Leave a Reply Cancel reply. Enter your comment here.
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when subs should be allowed control | the dominant submissive
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Life as “Red”. What’s in a label anyway? Red, right, returning →. When subs should be allowed control. March 15, 2015. Oh but they looked so happy on Facebook. We’ve all read the statistics. Relationships are hard work. I often say that I think that BDSM-based relationships are even harder work, but can also be much more rewarding as well. So today I’m trying to churn something out. What do we do when we subs think we know better? I’m not referencing play scenes where using a safe word is the natural ans...
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things never to say/do to your Dom | the dominant submissive
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Life as “Red”. The chicken or the egg? Seeking permission →. Things never to say/do to your Dom. March 9, 2015. To add some fun to the day today, I’ve been thinking of funny moments with my Master, inspired by threads I’ve read online on the topic of. Things Not to Do/Say to Your Dom. After He insisted I bend over for Him and gave me a whack for good measure, I asked if I could try it on Him, ever so gently. I wanted to see what the beast of a thing felt like in my hands (holy heck it is heavy! When He&#...
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my favorite quotes | the dominant submissive
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Life as “Red”. Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending. Think less. Do more. Do one thing every day that scares you. Eleanor Roosevelt. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Eleanor Roosevelt. When the designs are chosen with care, tattoos have a power and magic all their own. They decorate the body but they also enhance the soul. Michelle Delio. Pain is merely weakness leaving the body. Leave a Reply Cancel reply. Giving myself per...
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how did I become so dominant? | the dominant submissive
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Life as “Red”. Giving myself permission to give up control →. How did I become so dominant? March 3, 2015. I’ll explore this topic greatly here in the. This entry was posted in Dominance vs. submission. Giving myself permission to give up control →. Leave a Reply Cancel reply. Enter your comment here. Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:. Address never made public). You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. ( Log Out. You are commenting using your Google account. ( Log Out.
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What can I do for you, Master? | the dominant submissive
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Life as “Red”. Embarrassed by how W/we live? When He’s a natural →. What can I do for you, Master? March 27, 2015. I need a date. I need a long, hot, unyielding date with the things that bring me peace and relief. A date with pain, measured by Your steady and strong hands. A date with Your flogger. A date with Your belt. A date with Your new favorite tool, the dowel. And I need a date soon, please. But what can I do for You, my beautiful Owner? So if pain is my outlet, what is Yours? They say the life of...
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submissive speech | the dominant submissive
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Life as “Red”. The chicken or the egg? March 7, 2015. I woke up this morning planning to do some writing about the topic of submissive speech and then saw a great article by Married Submissive. On the same topickismet! This topic has been on my mind a lot lately, not so much as a submissive but just as a human being. I always find it so interesting how my submissiveness and my need to really pay attention to that side of myself so I behave properly then seems to extend into the rest of my world. And I mo...
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giving myself permission to give up control | the dominant submissive
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Life as “Red”. How did I become so dominant? We just did →. Giving myself permission to give up control. March 4, 2015. I Was Tired. Of. Being. In. Control. Exhausted even. The easiest way I can explain us to others, is that I’m with a man who is Dominant but not domineering, in control but not controlling. I often let that settle for a bit and then I explain that He has given me the greatest gift of all time: the gift of trust. I trust Him so implicitly that I can. How did I become so dominant? Notify m...
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the chicken or the egg? | the dominant submissive
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Life as “Red”. Things never to say/do to your Dom →. The chicken or the egg? March 8, 2015. There’s been a topic that Master and I have been discussing for a while now. It’s the concept of what. I met my Master on a vanilla online dating site. I had written my profile to explain that I was looking for an Alpha male and that despite being career driven I’m a 1950’s type of woman. I was involved (off and on) with online dating for several years. Three types of men would typically reach out to m...The men t...